Squiggles, u so mad.

That said-
What you really had over there was a horrible experience. Can't say in all of my time playing MMOs (which amounted to the brazilian RO server and a tiny bit of CoH and then here) that I've had to experience such a horrible submission process to a LS. But all of your anger is kind of misplaced, it's definitely not the LS system that is the problem, but you simply ran into bad people.

It happens, human beings gather together being social, and that shit WILL happen. No matter how wrong it is, it's also natural, which is why I prefer my LSes to be made up only of friends. I suggest you get away from those people and seek out real friends, or perhaps make your own mini-group within this LS with the people you like, build up your own secondary shell, focus on the friendship! And then you do runs with them.