Quote Originally Posted by Mikitan View Post
Doesn't feel super great as a person who plays MMOS to try and handle social anxiety, having to get in random discords to do anything with anything (I soloed all of Crescent before this tower thing... why cant I just hit a button to que in like bozja? I could be a silent follower learning from others, no discord required. What was so wrong with that? All these people's sub money going to those 400 clears of tower... man that's like the biggest $$$ to player ratio I think I've ever heard of. Would be nice if my sub money went to something I could participate in, just saying. (my warrior set for crescent 100% made, bard set halfway, butr alas, this was wasted time, forked tower is for poeople who can talk and perform, silly me solo grinding all that gear... I WAS PLAYING WRONG YOSHI FORGIVE ME FOR TOUCHING RAIDER CONTENT)

Also while I can function, barely, in these disco-ball lvl100 dungeons. But I get overwhelmed, I get shamed for dying over and over (Your healer rez macro is not cute the 10th time, it feels like you are mocking me) and yoiu know... the top couple categories on the random dungeon finder might as well be deleted to me. I associate them with failure, anxiety, shame. I just wanna kill some monsters man, not play seizure DDR where "YOU ARE TOO LATE IF YOU ARE IN RED SO WHY IS THERE RED AT ALL". Its fun doing world content I guess but it gets a bit dead feeling when you do fates for hours and never see anyone else (if you arent in a raid or a discord, you are falling behind silly!)
Bosses literally tell you what they are going to do in their cast bar, so anticipate mechanics. Why complain that you are standing in bad when you are not making an attempt to learn how fights work? There are very few people complaining that dungeons or even normal raids are too hard.