Quote Originally Posted by Ardeth View Post
But how? I always join FCs and friend groups wanting to play with others and they're never on. If they are on they're on different servers and they are busy doing something. After a few weeks of passing "Hellos" and "goodnights" are they your friends?

I'm an adult I have a job. I'm not going to lie to you and say I'm giving it 110% because I'm not, but I've tried and tried and tried. I'm fucking sick of it. Why is it so hard to find people who want to play the fucking game they're paying for?

But you know what it's a "me" problem.

Not the groups of silent players in duties or the clumps of silent players in major cities who don't give a shit about you. The players who if they even do say anything give you an "o/" and a "gg" The only time anyone engages in anything it's negativity. Either you or someone else sucks and they feel the need to dunk on you.

I'm just so tired of this socially inept response that it's because of "you" and not "them." Because you don't know me.
If you've been in multiple FCs on multiple servers across multiple Data Centers and you've had the same experience in every one, the only common thread there is you. Read your own post and pretend it's someone else posting it. Would you want to hang out with that person?