Sometimes its a good thing to have "toxicity" and other negative traits

[Daughterofdeath]

The word “toxic” is overused and lost all its meaning. No, it is not ok to be toxic in the actual meaning of the word (please look it up). What you are talking about is called “providing direct and honest feedback”. Btw, it can be done effectively without calling names and being rude in addition to it. Being rude is not effective, it brings anger and reactions which hide actual reasons behind frustration and advice/feedback is more easily forgotten or ignored as a result.

the average person, how many people here has come across that 1 tank or healer or even dps that no matter how nicely you try to suggest and say something calming like in AV eat a fruit to only get ignored, being direct and feedback only works if the person cares enough to try with the job they are playing most of them aren't and don't lol I mean some of the players you get in your party would literally walk into a snakes open mouth and go like "what happen" even when it was obvious and been told prehand about it lol

[Red-thunder]

the avarage person, how many people here has come across that 1 tank or healer or even dps that no matter how nicely you try to suggestion and say something calming like in AV eat a fruit to only get ignored, being direct and feedback only works if the person cares enough to try with the job they are playing most of them arent and dont lol

learn 2 kick

most DF players don't even pay attention and will just click yes if you select afk

[Daughterofdeath]

learn 2 kick

most DF players don't even pay attention and will just click yes if you select afk

only works if the others care enough to do it, or aren't trolling you by qing up togeather with that person and doing the stuff on purpose to people which yes does happan

And what’s your plan? Yelling at them louder? Coming into their room, taking their kb and eating that forsaken fruit for them? If they can’t or don’t want to hear words, or decide to not act on them - then that’s it. You can decide what to do with your own time and freedom as a result. Some choose leaving the dungeon, adding to mute/black list, some ignore and carry on. That’s life: you either try to educate or you safe your energy and try to switch circles.

for what another 10 of them the next week doing the same or similar honestly what I would do if i had the ability was make their keyboards and controlls shock them until they learn but I dont have that ability lol

[Red-thunder]

only works if the others care enough to do it, or aren't trolling you by qing up togeather with that person and doing the stuff on purpose to people which yes does happan

Dude I'm like 300% sure you haven't ever tried it. FF14 players don't pay attention. They're busy watching netflix or a podcast, this is a cookie clicker side game. They're just gonna click yes without thinking.

When I was still playing the game I initiated a kick every 4 or 5 instances because someone was playing terribly and half of them went through.

This game doesn't hold anyone accountable because no one dares to kick anyone.

[SongOfTheWind]

the avarage person, how many people here has come across that 1 tank or healer or even dps that no matter how nicely you try to suggestion and say something calming like in AV eat a fruit to only get ignored, being direct and feedback only works if the person cares enough to try with the job they are playing most of them arent and dont lol

And what’s your plan? Yelling at them louder? Coming into their room, taking their kb and eating that forsaken fruit for them? If they can’t or don’t want to hear words, or decide to not act on them - then that’s it. You can decide what to do with your own time and freedom as a result. Some choose leaving the dungeon, adding to mute/black list, some ignore and carry on. That’s life: you either try to educate or you save your energy and try to switch circles.