What happened to the community

[Lorika]

I've been playing since 2.2. The community hasn't changed. So look for the problem in yourself and why they started treating you like that.

I disagree. I play FFXIV since 2.0 early release (not on this account, this is my PSN account, my old PC account is not active)
You used to see everyone say hi at the start of a dungeon and ty at the end of it.... Now if you have one saying Hi it's a mircacle.
You used to see long funny macro at the start of a dungeon.... Now it's rare like an unicorn.
You used to see chat during dungeon, funny comment when a mistake was made, laugh etc.... Now you see an empty chat or some toxic comment.
You used to see tank asking if big pull was okay, apologie for pulling the boss during CS and even reset the boss.... Now, it's very rare.... They hit sprint without warning and don't give a sh*t about new player.
You ussed to see people not pulling or pressuring new tank on they first time in a dungeon, and even gladly help him.... Now people are impatient and do the complete opposite.
You used to see people stay after a dungeon/raid/trial and do emote for cheering and encouraging a new player, or to say they liked how you played... Now you only see it from time to time.(i even got a full party cheering me the first time i completed Ridorana lighthouse back in SB)
You used to see people stick to the end or at least wait until 30minutes left before asking for an abandon vote in EX trial.... Now you see 2 to 3 peoples quiting after 1 or 2 try only.
You used to see people running around giving gills/minion/glam to new player (i even saw a guy during a christmas waiting close to Alberic and giving gift to all the dragoon under 50 passing by).... Now it's a very rare occurence.
Quiter at the start of ex trials were rare (the main offender were tanks on Ramuh) now you see it very often, even in normal content dungeon.

So yeah, the community is not what it used to be.