You pull you tank question.

[TBerry]

So what about the crap guides to FF: Tanking then?

It teaches you to grab aggro of your teammates who just happen to be a healer in the tutorial.
For the DPS check the reinforcement tutorial where extra enemies would spawn and go for the healer while the tank is too busy eating dirt.

Either way it's an outdated and terrible tutorial and anyone who uses it as the basis for their arguments should be disregarded in a similar fashion

Now you really just want to normalize it by forcing it.