New to forum so don't know how to reply to you both in one message. But thank you for the tips, seem to be the general theme from what guides say too. As someone that love DRK i am a bit limited until level 70 on personal stuff that isn't the stronger 30% one. since the others i got is risky invul or magic based =/ But i have tried to get the 50 and 60 gear from tomestones, i just need to build that confidence and understanding.. did make it a habit to check dungeon guides to know what i get into (takeaway from playing a terrible healer on another character up to shadowbringers.)

But to stay on topic there are those cases of 15-50 where i would not be too happy if dps pulls more since tanks are more limited on mitigation, depending on dps job there is a lack of aoe and healer have a bit more work on them. Aurum Vale and stone vigil i have seen mentioned. Since many of those don't have like a wall to stop you from continuing.