Do Mentors still have a negative stigma?

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20 year olds get hurt feelings from being told what to do? Being employed or tutored must be difficult for them.

Being told what to do in a professional way and a rude way are different things. Also, when it's a job or college they signed up for it and they know the person. In a dungeon they don't know these people or their intentions.