I refuse to take part of your drama. Instead I try to answer what's asked.
Out of those two options I'd prefer the second, sprinkled with a bit of the first. There is a need to make healing better and make the solo experience better.
At the moment the healer jobs have really no other direction but to embrace DPS complexity. I'd really much like to heal, but I feel like there is no space for more heal actions atm... I'd even rather have buffs of all kind, but DPS seems to be something Squre would more likely do.
I will continue to advocate more DPS to Sage. It needs them.