IMO in regards to souls-like games. They aren't as hard as people place them to be. They are built to be challenging however it's also normally paired with a design that will essentially punish the player if they do not learn the game's systems and mechanics. It's those 2 factors put together that created that image of the games being made for those that like "hard games" or are "gaming masochists"
FFXIV on the other hand can be seen as the opposite. It's been systematically removing every system and mechanic while toning down what little challenge it had initially.
I personally enjoy just about any type of game out there that isn't Fortnite, CoD, or a sports game like madden, 2K sports, etc...