Anxiety

[Myrany]

It is also not just the healing that makes them anxious, but the fear of how people will treat them if they do it wrong and let someone die.

I find this to be particularly true for those that are coming from games where seeing people regularly and viciously attacked for the slightest mistake is common.

I know it was true for me when I tried healing.

[Koros]

but the fear of how people will treat them if they do it wrong and let someone die

just ignore them?

[Hurlstone]

How the hell is this real? How can people unironically get so anxious they freak out at the thought of having to heal Sastasha? Why do people get overwhelmed so much in this game? Why is it that every other pug I join someone will broadcast their anxiety going like "sorry i'm too scared to heal >.<"

Everyone in FF14 needs to control their emotions and read Marcus Aurelius!!!

[Elissar]

If everyone act as Meditation or Stoicism recommend, we wouldn't have trolls everywhere.

[Jeeqbit]

just ignore them?

Maybe this works for you. It does not work for everyone.

[EZGIL]

[Koros]

Maybe this works for you. It does not work for everyone.

maybe they need to turn down the neuroticism button on their personality cortex

[Fyrebrand]

Sometimes people get nervous their first time doing something, particularly when there is pressure to perform in front of a group of strangers. A lot of people have the empathy to understand this aspect of human nature, without throwing a tantrum on the forums.

[Carin-Eri]

Troll/bait thread or not, no-one needs to justify anxiety - it is, by definition:

[Asari5]

i see more complains about healer who only heal or only deal dmg than about healer who let people die