You already knew the answer, so it wasn't a legitimate question. The gotcha is because you think forcing an answer will result in some shift in perception or some such, when I already gave you an answer before. I take the Misshapen Chair perspective "shut up about a whole 2% damage difference". My personal perspective is that people should be able to play the things that they like. The different levels of complexity should be about having fun for those that want more not excluding those who want less. And, again, if you want to be the better person, you'd leave past discussions out of this one which isn't related to them anyway. And "they were good enough" was part of the same sentence, with the same subjects and indirect objects. There was no period there. And
you're the one trying to make this into a discussion of English since, again, you already know my stance and so knew it from that sentence - or should have known - since that sentence was
very clearly talking about a historic period in the past tense, not a present situation. Even if I WAS (which I'm not) saying in that sentence it was
my view, that would have been 2-3 years ago, meaning our conversation from
mere weeks ago would be the current one, meaning that if I HAD changed my position, it would have been in the opposite direction of that which you suggested with exaggerated incredulity. In other words, I was affirming
what most people seemed to believe about ShB SMN, not my own position
now (or then, but even if it was some kind of affirmation of my view, it would have been my view
then, not
now).
See, Ty? This is the issue I have discussing things with you. You read what I post (or sometimes don't - by your own admission), then take it in some wild direction. Then when I tell you "No, that's not what I said or meant", and even lay out how it isn't, instead of saying "Oh, I get you. My mistake", you try to justify your misunderstanding and insist it must be THE CORRECT understanding and I'm horrible at English or something for not wording it TO YOUR LIKING. In the worst case, you're either trying to insist I'm a hypocrite because you can't accept my clarification OR that I'm stupid/unintelligent for not being able to word it well (even though I do in both the initial statements AND the clarifications; you just want to misinterpret the former and ignore/reject the latter).
When someone says something, and you ask them if they meant something by it, and they tell you what they actually meant, it's
incredibly rude to insist to them that
your interpretation of
their words/views is more accurate than their own as clarified to you, and to keep doing it even after they have clarified their position, and to use it as some kind of ongoing attack against them. Especially when you're derailing entire threads - plural, because of how often you do this - in your crusade to be "righter" and make them look stupid/foolish. At some point, it becomes malicious and, frankly, petty, in addition to rude, especially when it becomes clear that the person isn't saying what you think and that their statements are being misinterpreted by you on a consistent basis, not through fault on their part but because you want to kind of "get them" so bad you see what isn't there and refuse to let it go.
When the proper thing to do would be, after I've clarified, for you to say "Oh, I get what you mean. Sorry, my mistake." OR POSSIBLY (if you're more interested in being kind of a jerk and/or have self-esteem issues or just feel you
need to justify your initial misunderstanding but still while being a decent-ish person) "Oh, I get what you mean. I thought you meant X because you said Y, but I see now with your clarification that isn't what you meant."
Instead,
without fail, you always insist what I said HAS to be your interpretation, you try to justify that, and then you won't let it go, continuing to insist that your interpretation is right even several posts after I issued a clarification where you could have just let it go.
Remember what you said recently?

Originally Posted by
ty_taurus
For example, like a week ago or so there was someone who didn't fully read a post I made in regards to the auto-battle concept and was making a comment about ways it wouldn't work based on misinformation. Rather than writing a 1200 word response on what a lying and deceitful person she was for not reading my post correctly, I very simply tried to clarify what I thought she didn't read correctly in a few words without any "you're actually wrong and this is why" type language, and the conversation resolved peacefully. Why is it that can happen with other players, but not with you?

Originally Posted by
ty_taurus
When someone else didn't read my post, all I said was effectively 'I think you're misunderstanding,' the other person said 'oh, my bad' and we moved on.
...yet when I say "You're actually wrong because...", or "You're misunderstanding me, what I said and meant was..." you don't say "Oh, my bad" and move on, you latch onto what you THINK I said and why YOU THINK I said/meant that (even though I already at this point have clarified so there's no ambiguity) and keep trying to insist your interpretation is correct. And you do this both when you DON'T read my post and when you DO.
But, I seriously don't want to have these snippy conversations with you. If you are going to ask me "Did you mean X?!" and I answer "No, I meant Y" with "YOU MEANT X!!! THE WAY YOU SAID IT CAN ONLY BE INTERPRETED AS YOU MEAN X!!!" over and over again, there's just no point. I'm moving on. You can do the same or not, I don't care anymore. I answered your question of what I meant, so if you want to keep insisting "YOU'VE CHANGED YOUR POSITION BECAUSE YOU SAID WORDS!!!", that's on you. I genuinely can't spend my life correcting you and clarifying everything I say that you misinterpret AND reject even the clarifications of.