"You pull, you tank" is a bad mentality

[CNitsah]

Apparently having an equal say on the pace of a run is now toxic. Who would have guessed?

It is. If you force your pacing on someone that can't keep up to it. It's possible for better players to scale down at will, but not possible for less experienced players to scale up at will.

With time maybe, but it's not by forcing him with a passive agressive "I aggro everything" mentality and then come complain about it on the forum you'll help him to get better. By Not wanting to let him play at the lvl he is confortable with, you're the problem, even if you're 3 problems in the team. It's about being a decent person, and you're failing at that. Now, I'm not saying it's not frustrating, having a tank that single group pulls everything in a 90 dungeon is a nightmare, but that doesn't happens that much. and at worst, you lost 15 min... Oof. You can still leave and take your penality.

[Silver-Strider]

It is. If you force your pacing on someone that can't keep up to it. It's possible for better players to scale down at will, but not possible for less experienced players to scale up at will.

With time maybe, but it's not by forcing him with a passive agressive "I aggro everything" mentality and then come complain about it on the forum you'll help him to get better. By Not wanting to let him play at the lvl he is confortable with, you're the problem, even if you're 3 problems in the team. It's about being a decent human being, and you're failing at that. Now, I'm not saying it's not frustrating, having a tank that single group pulls everything in a 90 dungeon is a nightmare, but that doesn't happens that much. and at worst, you lost 15 min... Oof. You can still leave and take your penality.

Or the Majority can vote to kick the weak link. Dungeons aren't hard enough that being down 1 player, regardless of role, is a make or break if the other 3 are skilled enough.