When spreding cheer and goodwill on christmas day can get you in trouble

[EgilTheStressedMage]

A nice person would apologize and drop the subject, even if they think they are in the right.

Instead you came to the forums to spread hostility.

You even admitted you would name and shame if it wasn't a quick way to get banned.

You can't talk like that, with the double "??", insults and stuff and convince people at the same time that you are doing something nice. That you are a nice person.

There is no think here. He is right. Offendee was kicked out of a raid group for their behavior and they're in an FC full of like minded actual elitists. Just because you're nice doesn't mean you turn the other cheek to a direct threat to your account or person over something so petty, especially when it's during the one day a year where everyone shouldn't be an ass.

[Raven2014]

The more the OP talks, the more it sounds like the two are a match made in heaven for each others.

Offendee was kicked out of a raid group for their behavior and they're in an FC full of like minded actual elitists. Just because you're nice doesn't mean you turn the other cheek to a direct threat to your account or person over something so petty, especially when it's during the one day a year where everyone shouldn't be an ass.

And ... curiously ... how do you just know this? You know the offendee personally, or did you guys actually stalked him for this information? Another curiosity part of the OP's story is if the two never know each others and even claim he never interact with the offendee, how does he know the what the OP was doing to begin with?

Tbh, this is getting a little bit creepy, this sound more and more like some kind of personal issues with one another and one party just come here to seek some kind gratification and validation. Not the first time it had happened, and it's not the first time they get rebuke either. The internet, naturally is a place for a lot of skepticism for good reason. Most people won't be convinced with just one side of the story. And usually, the kind of people who seek personal validation with stranger are often not the type who know how to carry their story in an empathetic manner like you two had demonstrated.


And my advise, stop trying to pretend to be the "nice" party here. Right or wrong aside, I don't think there will be many people who read the whole thread will be remotely convinced that the two of you are nice people by any standard given the way you're been talking, even if you're given the benefit of the doubt to be the "right" party ... Like someone else had said near the beginning, even if the "offendee" was totally in the wrong, the OP already more or less brought himself to the same level with his opening post, and that means the two of you have been sinking below that since.

[Puc]

Long story short after all this, people are too emotional. Crying because cookie trade and crying to forum because cookie trade. That being said everyone who would be upset about a cookie trade at face value need to take a break from mmo.

[EgilTheStressedMage]

And ... curiously ... how do you just know this? You know the offendee personally, or did you guys actually stalked him for this information? Another curiosity part of the OP's story is if the two never know each others and even claim he never interact with the offendee, how does he know the what the OP was doing to begin with?

I'm just reporting this, I had nothing to do with any of it. We're in the same FC and were in voice chat. Fult has raided with all kinds of people and he's been in and met multiple raid groups, one of which had this guy and they don't tolerate the offendees behavior so they removed him for now. To repeat myself, Fult just walked up asked if they wanted a cookie and they just melted down.

Tbh, this is getting a little bit creepy, this sound more and more like some kind of personal issues with one another and one party just come here to seek some kind gratification and validation. Not the first time it had happened, and it's not the first time they get rebuke either. The internet, naturally is a place for a lot of skepticism for good reason. Most people won't be convinced with just one side of the story. And usually, the kind of people who seek personal validation with stranger are often not the type who know how to carry their story in an empathetic manner like you two had demonstrated.

He shouldn't have brought it the forum and handled it better, I agree. I'll be speaking with him about it later today if he comes on.

And my advise, stop trying to pretend to be the "nice" party here. Right or wrong aside, I don't think there will be many people who read the whole thread will be remotely convinced that the two of you are nice people by any standard given the way you're been talking, even if you're given the benefit of the doubt to be the "right" party ... Like someone else had said near the beginning, even if the "offendee" was totally in the wrong, the OP already more or less brought himself to the same level with his opening post, and that means the two of you have been sinking below that since.

Then don't threaten people with a report over a cookie trade when there was zero provocation of any kind. This thread wouldn't exist in the first place if people just chilled out over something so small. If you treat people with respect they will be respectful back to you most of the time. The rest of the time you get this type of player. He can come here and defend himself if he wants, in fact I encourage it. I'm just calling it as I see and hear it. Maybe he was just having a bad day, I completely get that. But you shouldn't take it out on innocent people.

[kevin_satron]

OP just want to say something in this forum about what just happened to him. and the comments starts getting personal

[Kes13a]

I'm just reporting this, I had nothing to do with any of it. We're in the same FC and were in voice chat. Fult has raided with all kinds of people and he's been in and met multiple raid groups, one of which had this guy and they don't tolerate the offendees behavior so they removed him for now. To repeat myself, Fult just walked up asked if they wanted a cookie and they just melted down.

a little confused now since the OP said they had zero interactions with the person.

either way, doesnt matter, but as suspected, more to the story than what was in the original post it seems.

[Midareyukki]

Someone once saw I was undergeared and came back with accessories for my gatherers in the caves near Copperbell Mines. I never saw them before, I never saw them since. Just thanked and then he left.

Should he be banned and blocked and massacrated like this just because he randomly showed up, traded me items and had literally no text interaction other than me saying "Thank you " and him going "Saw you were undergeared, made some of these."

Y'all need some holiday spirit, bunch of grinches this...

[Oldschoolegamer38]

OP just want to say something in this forum about what just happened to him. and the comments starts getting personal

I agree...like I committed a heinous crime, but nope, the kids are having a temper tantrum...at this point and I dont care...Just goes to show how the bad actors have hijacked the community in an attempt to silence different points of view that goes against there narrative...

[Oldschoolegamer38]

a little confused now since the OP said they had zero interactions with the person.

either way, doesnt matter, but as suspected, more to the story than what was in the original post it seems.

There is nothing more to the story than just that...please stop looking for things that are not there...

[Oldschoolegamer38]

Long story short after all this, people are too emotional. Crying because cookie trade and crying to forum because cookie trade. That being said everyone who would be upset about a cookie trade at face value need to take a break from mmo.

Was not upset I was having the "huh? why are you acting like this?" mindset