No? I never argued the first sacrifice was wrong, only that what follows is wrong. The third sacrifice is the core of the issue, as there isn’t a justifiable reasons beyond grief to justify it. It’s harvesting an organ from an innocent to try to save someone you personally care about.
Where have I “violated” my beliefs.
It’s not honestly, it’s stripping away context and complexity and trying to ground this in a categorical duty you find aesthetically pleasing. It all comes down to why we value life, which we’ll get into in the next response.
Without life one does not have virtue (good) and thus lacking any sort of life we lack any sort of good. That is why life is important. Others will disagree of course, but that’s my moral position. Notice how I can hold that life is precious and that sometimes people who use their lives to harm others shouldn’t not be suffered to do so. Because I’m not solely concerned with some vague moral duty, I’m worried about why a person kills another.
Justice is an abstract principle, as is equality, kindness, mercy, or courage. They’re all “ideals” and “nebulous concepts” that we place as the foundations of our society, and oftentimes enforce over wellbeing. As we should. You’re equivocating all ideals as equally bad, when in actuality the only good world is one that values these sorts of things. If I asked whether you would live in a society that values justice and equality and one that does not, you would of course choose the latter despite the fact that these are just abstract concepts. Which comes down to either hypocrisy or you just didn’t think it through.
And yknow, the reason why I wanted to avoid the abortion comparison is perfectly illustrated here. Comparing abortion to leaving a child to die ignores the complexity of the issue when it comes to how we consider personhood and bodily autonomy, aspects that clearly impact how we apply any moral principles we glean from the topic.
You’ve yet to explain how the distinction is imagined when I gave several examples of how valuing one leads to harming the other. By all means explain how I can believe in some “greater good” by harming life if there’s supposedly no distinction between the two?
Ok then we have moral disagreement going back to our core principles. That’s fine. I think you’re undercutting you’re own argument with that line however. After all, simply acting in self defense is in fact me forcing someone to die because the cause is just.
You’ve never actually taken the time to explore my positions or consider what I’m saying beyond the strawman so of course you feel that way. I’m not a Kantian or Utilitarian. I don’t hold duties or maximizing happiness to be the ultimate good, others do and good for them but that’s not me. I’m a virtue ethicist. I’m more interested in the why than the what. What motivates actions than what the consequences are. What you claim is me obfuscating good is really just you never bothering to consider that what I consider to be good doesn’t follow your preconception.