Queues aren't long at all in FFXIV. Log in, queue up, grab tribe quests, queue pops, finish dungeon, queue up, do tribe quests, queue pops, etc.

Quote Originally Posted by VerdeLuck View Post
I did, they're saying that it's "disrespectful" to be bad at the game. It's a ridiculous concept. It's a video game, people are learning to play it, they make mistakes. Just deal with it.

People say that's it's "disrespectful" to know that you're bad and just continue to leech off of random people and not at least pull a reasonable amount of weight. If you don't want to perform and help the group of people you're with, that's what Trusts are for. Otherwise, it's fairly easy to be "ok" at the game and that's the only expectation, hell, with some jobs it's fairly easy to be "good" at the game.