Can Someone Help Me Understand The Endgame

[Ransu]

FFXIV end game gearing is pretty relaxed compared to WoW's.

Essentially during an expansion launch or during a new tier update it basically goes;

Expert roulette/tome farm for the early tier gear pieces
EX Trials for accessories/weapon
Savage to upgrade to your cap while mixing the tome gear upgrades for BiS.

There's also crafting if you're a omni crafter or stupid rich and can get the pentamelded crafted gear with 5 materia slots or whatever it is. Those are really good entry gear.

I am someone who likes to do trials, raids and dungeons but looks like as long as i don't put enough mind and time for it i won'T be able to do them cause extremes trials are too time consuming and hard for me. And i don't wanna do anything else but raiding, trials and dungeons.

The savage raids are more difficult than the extreme fights. Find yourself a static group, don't pug that stuff. It takes time to practice and learn the fights, but you'll get it if you give it the time to learn.