Why do casuals act as if it's the end of the world when suggesting?

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and no the game shouldn't have to hold your hand literally every 2 seconds any person with literally any sense would go ohpe. i can't sneak past that large group of enemies

The game shouldn't hold your hand, correct. But it shouldn't give you false direction either.

It tells you to go to the camp it doesn't tell you that you have to go to the camp in a very specific way and you can't just use "common sense" and simply turn around a take the long way around and avoid them.
Good games give you real options, to fight or to avoid. They don't misdirect you they simply just don't tell you.

It makes perfect logical sense to be able to simply avoid them if the game gave you real choice, it doesn't. It misdirects you.