
Originally Posted by
Teraq
IMO the gap between what Emet says he views the Sundered as and the implications to the contrary just comes down to the Unsundered having to tell themselves sundered lives don't matter. Otherwise, the feelings of empathy and guilt might come in the way of their duty, and considering they are the only 3 survivors (no, she doesn't count) and they probably feel a massive responsibility to bring their people back as they were world leaders, they just plain couldn't afford that. It's like any job where you have to watch animals or people die, but a lot more extreme; you have to have a certain degree of detachment, otherwise you are destroying yourself emotionally. (Which is why Hermes's character made no sense to me. Consider another job, dude, please, how long have you been doing this????)
That emotional conflict is, I suspect, one of the reasons Elidibus did not want to refresh his memory. Beside his reason of not wanting to suffer through the memory loss again, Emet's recognition of us as Azem, and his overall sentimentality, is part of what caused him to have a change of heart after his defeat. Elidibus most likely wanted to avoid precisely that, considering he was bothered enough by Emet recognizing our Ancient self to ask us who we were. Notably, even though he was able to see us as Azem with soul sight at the beginning of 5.3 (our character appearing as an Ancient shade with a black mask), he never did recognize us, not even in Endwalker. A very sound choice from a purely professional and utilitarian point of view. The virgin Emet-Selch falling to his sentimentality VS. the Chad Elidibus purposely steeling himself.