I absolutely disagree with the attitude that PVE players are oh so much more genteel than PVP players - I have often met extremely helpful players in both community, just as I've encountered truly poisonous ones in both. However I do understand that it's impractical to type out text during CC, and the ide of doing so during rezzing is also impractical since (a) many of us want the spawn times reduced and (b) ideally we avoid re-spawning as much as possible anyways.

I really would wish that we would be allowed to type in party chat in the time we have before the match starts- that could allow time for a short macro or quick chat to agree on who to focus and could be really helpful.