Alright I'm putting an end to this tangent here and now-there is a clear difference between the Elven knight and catboy with a downright bizarre appearance and creepy mannerisms. One thing is a "pretty boy" another thing is whatever G'raha Tia is supposed to be. You can still be "pretty" and have a masculine attitude and mannerisms like Aymeric does. He is a serious character, G'raha Tia is not.