My issue isn't so much other characters fawning over mine as it is mine fawning over them. This is my problem with Haurchefant. I wasn't attached to his character at all, in fact, I think his model is ugly, I didn't like his VA, and since we got the 'sanitized western' version of him I thought he came across as a generic NPC for the most part. I didn't cry at his death either, it was Edmont's reaction that got me. However, my WoL was crushed, displaying a level of sorrow that I've yet to see on my character's face since. Matter of fact, I have cried my heart out at Emet multiple times and my WoL only ever looks mildly disappointed (and that's when they're not displaying anger or skepticism). Meanwhile, I've had I think at least 3 different cutscenes at Haurchefant's grave, I have his emote*, I am incessantly plagued with flashbacks of him because they insist on milking his death for all its worth and this adds to the feeling that my WoL is still utterly broken over him. It honestly felt like my WoL had something going on with him on the side and it's kind of gross.
* Noting that the "snap" emote isn't marketed as being associated with Emet and you have to purchase it from the cash shop.
As far as the women, the only one who was uncomfortable was Lyse in the 'sparring' scene in slow motion, with a sunset in the background, where it looked like our characters were coming in for a kiss. Alisaie's 'crush' hasn't felt intrusive yet. However, I very much view her as a minor and with Yoshi-P stating that they have no intention of aging their models it's going to be awkward. Going by the game's life she may end up being 26 years old and still have the body of a 16 year old.
G'raha is an interesting case. I don't find his model necessarily attractive, but his VA is excellent and has made his character endearing. I understand why people don't like G'raha, but I haven't noticed my character going nuts over him though I am biased because I like him. Sometimes I miss the more subdued affection he had as the Crystal Exarch, but it was always there. He's just more overt about his hero worship now, which is somewhat disappointing because I get the feeling for at least half of the Scions they wouldn't have anything to do with my character if I weren't a 'hero'.
A bit off topic, but Estinien is probably the only one I consider a true brother-in-arms with whom I bonded over being the Azure Dragoon and participant in the Dragonsong War not because I'm the Warrior of Light. The main reason Thancred has been a long time favorite is because initially he didn't care either, he was distressed in ARR that he couldn't be there to protect me from Ifrit. Every other Scion was like, "How can we use her? Let us count the ways!" Alphinaud and Minfilia in particular were candid about the fact that we were a weapon in their arsenal.
I completely forgot to mention Uldum because, unfortunately, it is forgettable. Beautiful zone, ruined by it being turned into a poorly done Indiana Jones parody. I also posted that image of Tarna from QFG3 forgetting that the Tol'vir are basically copies of their liontaurs. :P