"You pull, you tank" is a bad mentality

[KariTheFox]

Nope, healer let them die. If only the DPS was courteous enough to think about what the healer might have capacity for.

You have your gapcloser, your provoke, and your naturally high enmity generation built into your aoe rotation, all of those can easily take back mobs in one GCD. By not using those tools to control the mobs and pull them off of other players, you are letting them die.

But of course, you know that. You're just being intentionally obtuse and passive aggressive because you feel some need to teach the DPS a lesson, instead of doing your best to try to fulfill your role as a tank.