FF14 and toxic positivity

[Illmaeran]

there's no actual real life consequence or chance of people finding out who they really are.

This is one of the main reasons I prefer server-only dungeon finder content. Even though queues are longer, you'll eventually get to know the usual crowd and build a reputation among players. People will a bad reputation generally get put on black lists (game mechanic) or get shunned/refused to play with by the community. People should be accountable for their behavior and deal with the consequences, positive or negative, of their actions.