You have literally zero metrics for deaths and pinpointing every death for age as a Hydaelyn kill is as absurd as proclaiming Amaurot culture is the culprit for their suicides. And not only that, the habitants themselves would have to admit it as abnormal which they don't. Not to mention it assumes the sundered lives follow Amaurotian standards when they DON'T. They're a whole different thing with a whole different set of values and yes, different standards for what living entails. And if people actually cursed that condition, then the Ascians would've had their work cut out for them. Just tell them their future selves will be better if they renounce themselves for the good ol' Zodiark. You count as a crime, but literally most (if not all) would see it as anything but that. The only ones who can't cope with that fact are the Ascians, who are completely unable to come to terms with it.
And Zodiark and their followers have NEVER been the good guys, and the fact people try to believe the subversion of expectatives work here is absolutely baffling. You go several expansion trying to fix the messes Ascians leave left and right, witnessing the atrocities they commit and just because they have lived in a cool place that bad bad crystal mommy took away from them they're completely justified and the life and work of the Warrior of Light is a pile of worthless misguided garbage they should've gotten rid of in favor to champaigning the glorious genocides and ruining the lives instead of improving them just because... Elidibus himself tried to killed us. Several times. And literally stripped other worlds from their heroes for the last stand, using them to fuel himself. But, hey, he saved us that one time, so it's all good.
And then I'm the one using double standard when you're using every fringe situation to illustrate a case that's focused on the MSQ and the MSQ alone. And I never said the sundered were good or better, but trying to paint the Ascians and Zodiark as good guys is as disingenuous as it gets. As a matter of fact, any attempt to reduce the plot to a black/white is absurd.