I don't see the issue from wanting to create a discord exclusively for females that play FFXIV, why did this turn into a bigger issue than it needed to be?

Are people forgetting there are reasons why bars, gyms and other services are catered towards different groups of people, I know everyone is just trying to do the best for others but some of you take it too far, also I really don't like the fact that the Trans person in those Twitter posts is trying to get people together in order to report a player to get them banned, please don't do that.