FFXIV Girls only discord server

[Aelin_Ashryver]

Because I am not okay with Sexism. Don't worry, I don't want to join the server. I simply disagree as a principle.

Do you think it would be perfectly acceptable if I made a discord server that didn't allow black people to join? What If I opened a shop only for white people? For some reason, it's socially acceptable to discriminate against men and I am not okay with that.

No, but if there was a server that was for black people only who would be against it? A marginalised group wanting a space AWAY from the one's who marginalise them is nothing new and is totally fine to me. It is a place they want to have and be in due to shared experiences with their peers.

Sorry but there are plenty spaces that cater to men, gentlemens clubs meant for men, higher up in plenty companies is all men, places that might allow women but are not safe or welcoming to women in the least, sex based spaces exist everywhere, toilets, sports teams etc. You are not being refused a job, you are not a victim of a hate crime because you cannot join a discord meant for women as a man. And even then, this particular discord allows men entry in a more limited fashion.
Don't act as though people are against men because of a single sex based discord.

[Xrystofer]

No, but if there was a server that was for black people only who would be against it? A marginalised group wanting a space AWAY from the one's who marginalise them is nothing new and is totally fine to me.

Who did I marginalize? Please tell me.

[Aelin_Ashryver]

Who did I marginalize? Please tell me.

Please, don't be purposefully ignorant. Not every man or white person is a racist or sexist, we are all aware of that. Wanting a safe space away from those groups is still understandable regardless. And if you were so virtuous you would be supportive of them instead of taking it personally.

You sound like every person who says "but I didn't" or "not all x" misdirecting from the actual issue at hand because you are so concerned with yourself rather than the people who are actual victims. The fact of the matter is that men and white people DO marginalise these other groups (again not all of them), so it should be no shock when people within those communities want a space without them. If you are white or male you should recognise that there are people within your community who do bad things and work together to rectify such behaviours rather than deflect with 'I didn't do it', plenty men around me wouldn't do such things but they DONT call out their male friends who act like total creeps, they don't report their crimes to police. And for some the lesson comes to late when a male friend has r*ped one of their female friends, only then did they realise their mistake.

[Theox]

Because I am not okay with Sexism. Don't worry, I don't want to join the server. I simply disagree as a principle.

Do you think it would be perfectly acceptable if I made a discord server that didn't allow black people to join? What If I opened a shop only for white people? For some reason, it's socially acceptable to discriminate against men and I am not okay with that.

There is a reason why men don't go in women's bathrooms. You're okay with that? Well what's the difference then? I'm not pressed about being excluded from a place I don't even want to be in. Many people claim they wouldn't want to be there either, yet the reason why they're pressed remains a mystery.

And yes, if i want to organize MY personal space according to what I want it to look like - it's none of your business. Seethe all you want but if I don't want you in MY place you won't join.

[Xrystofer]

There is a reason why men don't go in women's bathrooms.

Because I choose not to go. If women don't want to be seen naked by men I can respect that. However, telling me that I can't enter a social place simply because of my gender rather than being judged by my actions is the definition of sexism.

And yes, if i want to organize MY personal space according to what I want it to look like - it's none of your business. Seethe all you want but if I don't want you in MY place you won't join.

You have the right to be sexist/racist and I am entitled to my opinion to not respect your sexist/racist beliefs.

Have a nice day my friend.

[Tsumdere]

Because I choose not to go. If women don't want to be seen naked by men I can respect that. However, telling me that I can't enter a social place simply because of my gender rather than being judged by my actions is the definition of sexism.



You have the right to be sexist/racist and I am entitled to my opinion to not respect your sexist/racist beliefs.

Have a nice day my friend.

Local boy upset that he can't enter the girl's treehouse. More at 11.

[Theox]

Because I choose not to go. If women don't want to be seen naked by men I can respect that. However, telling me that I can't enter a social place simply because of my gender rather than being judged by my actions is the definition of sexism.

Okay, so if you ever decide to enter a women's bathroom we should check your social score and base our decision on your actions. Or should we do a poll? Like what does it even mean "being judged by my actions"? Who are you? Nobody's judging you by your actions lol. This isn't a medal for a war veteran we're talking about here. Wake the f' up and stop being salty. The most creepy thing in this thread is a seething man crying because some women didn't allow him in their place. Please leave them alone lol

[rance-sama]

Videogames?

[Maxilor]

Videogames?

[whiteblade89]

Videogames?

LMAO This comment gives me life xD