Quote Originally Posted by lisaa View Post
Look at these forums, or other places like reddit discord, or in game. It is constant bickering, blaming healers because they didn't heal or didn't dps, healers blaming others for taking damage. I wanted to share an idea that could finally remove the need for that toxicity and allow all players to be happy.

I don't know if I'm more upset at the moderators or the people who report me. Even though the constant comments who say I am crap or trolling or blabbering, I just tried to ignore and didn't report it. I thought that even though it was really hurtful, if that is what they want to say about me, fine, let them say it. Tbh I didn't even want to comment anymore because of those comments, but then they started talking like that about someone else too, so I felt like I had to say something about it. Why are those comments allowed but my argument not?

Healer is already a stressful role, if you die, or miss a heal, or even didn't deal enough dps, it can all easily cause a wipe. Why do we have to yell at each other so and make it even worse? What is so wrong to ask for less stress in a game we use to forget about irl?
its wrong to ask to change an entire role so you won't bother to press which is right now 1 button.
playing a healer is as stressful as playing a dps or a tank, dps players will tell you its seems scary to watch people hp bars, others will say its scary to position the boss and some will say keeping rotations is too much to handle.
the reason we healers play said role is cause its fun for us, we enjoy watching people hp and put buffs that increase damage to our party members, put debuffs that weaken our enemy and if needed we will dps to help the burden of our party.
we don't find it scary to be a healer, a new healer might be scared but he has 80-90 levels to get the feeling and understanding how a job feels its more then enough time to get over the first time nervousness especially when every time someone say he is new in the game, the party members understand and alleviate his concerns.
i will say this lisaa nothing is not gameplay, nothing is nothing simple as that.