Are some jobs 'too feminine' in aesthetics?

[Jin-]

I also think some caster armour is too feminine and therefore lacks catering to all types of players. I see nothing wrong with people desiring more masculine options.

What I dont understand is, if people want their characters to look more masculine, people for some reason have an issue with the idea and are told to "get over it".

What's wrong with wanting more masculine-looking character gear? Yet, when someone suggests having the option for males to wear maid outfits everyone is literally praising and trying to prove how accepting they are.

Some people are offended by masculine males, but they love a tomgirls.