I can assure you... if this is another MMO, you'll probably correct. But FFXIV is
different. Tanks are -not- the king. It's the group's decision. If people are dissatisfied they each have 33% power over the group that's also known as Vote Dismiss count.
A single pulling tank is as good as a gimped dps with constant Weakness debuff. Why? Because in addition to tanks' already lower damage output than a legit DPS, tanking a single pack is something that's not exclusive to tanks. Single pulling devalues qualities where tanks shines at: their tankiness. Why would you waste that advantage of yours by playing chicken? If you don't want to see anybody pulling ahead
in lv50+ contents, then pull until there's nothing left to pull.
Do note that I specifically mentioned lv50+ because that's how easy tanking progresses into late game. If it's lv15-50 where walls aren't so apparent
(i.e. Aurum Vale first room), taking consideration of your healers' limited tools, dps AoE firepower, and your own survivability is completely fine. Under normal circumstances, big pulls are almost always preferred. Horror stories happen but they're not the norm.
Please don't fall into
"Tanks/Healers are the king"-trap, that's a relic from another MMO. I repeat; FFXIV is entirely different.
