why so much players have a rush mentality

[Miracle_Diva]

that is where you are wrong. i start by saying hi or hallow and the ask people how are they. thing is normally i get ignored even by that point and the healer run off. i try to ""force"" people to talk in chat. but if i find my self talk to the walls then i stop.
but when people are willing to be nice and at last say hi/hallow to the party all be well and nice.

Just because someone doesn't say hi/bye, it doesn't mean people are not nice. They might have the chat logs turned off completely.