"Swift completion" is relative to the game, not the community

[Nishira]

Hmm I meant more that you often won’t know why someone is slower, or is a less effective player. So assuming the worst reasons for the behaviour will put you in a foul mood, cursing DF… while if you simply assume it may have far more innocent reasons that you would be considerate of if you knew, creates a different feeling towards it, and them. At least, that has always been my own experience. I hardly ever suspect foul play and trust people try their best, even if it’s not great, and that’s good enough for me.

In that sense I meant more the initial mindset, how do you perceive certain behaviour and what do you translate it into.

And an edit because I feel I was still not clear. My examples would be the way I reason, my assumptions about situations. I’m not saying you would be a douche there LittleImp , more that your examples might put you in a worse mood than if you experienced it more innocently. I know what I mean, putting it into words is hard! Grr

[Rinhi]

Hmm I meant more that you often won’t know why someone is slower, or is a less effective player. So assuming the worst reasons for the behaviour will put you in a foul mood, cursing DF…

often enough it is obvious that it's simple laziness on their end, though, and because the community is obsessed with being 'nice and non-confrontational', those players get carried through content they should be kicked from - because people would rather spend more time in content than try to convince the others to kick them because those others might kick them in return to show how great and 'nice' they are and whatnot

on the topic of laziness; you can see it in PF too, a friend is grinding DR for the relic and made a PF for essence runs for it and guess what? she had to kick 10+ people because they didn't use any essences and expected to be carried by the rest

[Izscha]

Hmm I meant more that you often won’t know why someone is slower, or is a less effective player. So assuming the worst reasons for the behaviour will put you in a foul mood, cursing DF… while if you simply assume it may have far more innocent reasons that you would be considerate of if you knew, creates a different feeling towards it, and them. At least, that has always been my own experience. I hardly ever suspect foul play and trust people try their best, even if it’s not great, and that’s good enough for me.

In that sense I meant more the initial mindset, how do you perceive certain behaviour and what do you translate it into.

And an edit because I feel I was still not clear. My examples would be the way I reason, my assumptions about situations. I’m not saying you would be a douche there LittleImp , more that your examples might put you in a worse mood than if you experienced it more innocently. I know what I mean, putting it into words is hard! Grr

While i do truly admire your optimistic view on things and the community as a whole, being way too optimistic doesn't mean that what you think ppl do is true.
Anyone with a trained eye / a bit of experience in the game can see how a lot truly dont care about being decent and are here just to get carried, it's human nature afterall to do the less possible and have the maximum profit out of it.