If this is SHB I don't like it.

[Tarryme]

You can probably nix the objective response for subjective statements and still get your message across. No need for the passive-aggressiveness, either. Like you said, this isn't twitter - we're full grown adults, mostly.

If there were any judging to be done it would be in what way the established community dealt with us fragile little sprouts. We want to grow but keep coming up against obstacles and beasties that nibble away at out leaves.