DF is not a Linkshell. Pugs are not part of your guild/ls or whatever. The people in it, don't have to care, should not have to care about your feelings. It is not his or her place to do it. You can build a community for that, but it has no place in a pug setting. It is your job to handle your own fun, and if dealing with these types of people ruins your fun. Than don't do that content.