When I joined FF14 back at the start of Stormblood, I had so many nice people help me and I've only ever come across one person who was a gobshite in a "PUG" raid where you fought (Zenos?) .

What I have noticed is for EU (which is am in) seems to be very friendly, but it's seems the NA side of the English section of FF14 that has had a lot of bad experiences for a number of people?

Bellular being from Ireland is playing on the EU datacentre as he new employee is a FF14 vet, which is how he's been able to find a gateway into FF14.

I had found generally the attitude in FF14 to be very different to what I experienced in WoW, which I played off and on, until WotLK when I really got into the hardcore raiding side of things. WoW high end raiding or any raiding back them felt very pressured, where FF14 feels much more laid back, which I put down to how easy the telegraphs are in boss fights in FF14?