Alright, I'll bite, so who was the "someone" who wants to be carried you were referring to? I'm really the only one still talking here. Addressing an imaginary friend of yours? No need for you to backpeddle.
Also, why would I mind other people using essences? I don't mind DR so I honestly don't care if it takes 40 minutes or 20. I'm not strapped for time; I just don't want to spend my gil and I don't like the Bozja overworld, so I won't be farming it. Simple as that.
You don't want people to admit that they don't "mind" people using essences; you want them to admit they're trying to get carried. Why don't you admit that, instead of trying to adjust your narrative to my specific scenario.
He said "sounds like someone wants to be carried" in a context where I was the only one here talking about not using essences.
Are you people really so cornered and out of ways to defend your position that you have to pull this disingenuous crap?