Final Fantasy XIV and a Culture of Enabling

[Jijifli]

I said when I play it, does max level only thing that matter?

Also, how you are acting right now is the reason why we have rules in the game to protect players. I also use to be a healer, and it was ok. Like I said the content was design that I could heal how I wanted and we got job done. I just enjoy dancer right now.


Nothing in the TOS at all says that I got to play how you want, just because it takes longer. Your example is wrong. I am playing the best I can for how I want to play. If that is not good enough for you, or the group you can pick to vote kick me. Yet, that has hardly happen because most community understand this basic thing.


So are you really trying to twist the TOS to say that unless you play how I want you to play, that is breaking the rules? Oooh boy.

1) You have a level 15 pugilist who hasn't done a dungeon yet and a just unlocked SAM. You literally couldn't have done positionals yet.
2) I didn't say "Makes content take longer." After all, you said yourself with failed dungeons, no? If you're failing dungeons, something needs to be worked on, I promise.
3) Your only point to healing is you have a 45 white mage. Besides that I see can easily leveled up duo-class with smn, and a barely leveled up ast. And in those cases, healing in the game is so painfully overpowered anyways it's horribly hard to do incorrectly without plain going afk. Though I know people have found a way.
4) It's not the community "understands this basic thing." It's that a ton of them are perfectly acceptable of people not even playing at all, SPECIALLY if it's a dps. If I had a nickel for every time I've been kicked myself for not wanting the afk RDM who casted one impact to then do nothing for the rest of the pull or boss for the past 10 minutes, I'd have two nickels, which isn't much but it's weird that happened twice. Would you say I was wrong for wanting that dps to actually press anything at all? According to the community, I was, I should just deal with it.

... Oh, and 5) I'm not twisting it to say you gotta play how I play. Unless you wanna pick up a crafting tool, then I can show you how I play <3

[Jadedsins]

1) You have a level 15 pugilist who hasn't done a dungeon yet and a just unlocked SAM. You literally couldn't have done positionals yet.
2) I didn't say "Makes content take longer." After all, you said yourself with failed dungeons, no? If you're failing dungeons, something needs to be worked on, I promise.
3) Your only point to healing is you have a 45 white mage. Besides that I see can easily leveled up duo-class with smn, and a barely leveled up ast. And in those cases, healing in the game is so painfully overpowered anyways it's horribly hard to do incorrectly without plain going afk. Though I know people have found a way.
4) It's not the community "understands this basic thing." It's that a ton of them are perfectly acceptable of people not even playing at all, SPECIALLY if it's a dps. If I had a nickel for every time I've been kicked myself for not wanting the afk RDM who casted one impact to then do nothing for the rest of the pull or boss for the past 10 minutes, I'd have two nickels, which isn't much but it's weird that happened twice. Would you say I was wrong for wanting that dps to actually press anything at all? According to the community, I was, I should just deal with it.

... Oh, and 5) I'm not twisting it to say you gotta play how I play. Unless you wanna pick up a crafting tool, then I can show you how I play <3

You are correct! I'm saying that even if it require of me. I would not do it because I already know it is not fun. My husband is a sam main and he does it. So I know myself enough I would not.
Yup! During the times I played a healer it was pre hw and I think HW? Eh been awhile! Either way are you saying healers are so op now that skill is not required. So why did you use healers as an example...and go off and saying that I could get by playing healer. Very confusing.

I think you are mixing the point. It is ok for you to want to kick them, if other members of your party wants too as well. However, if the group does not. Making a big deal out of it, or trying to help said person when maybe they don't want it. It is not your place. Asking them in whispers after the run if you still want to help them is far far more acceptable...but do you really care how they play once you are done with the group? If you want to help someone only to get done with a dungeon faster. Masking that as a kindness I find silly, it is for yourself that you want to help person.