Final Fantasy XIV and a Culture of Enabling

[Lanadra]

I'll give my party two wipes before I pull small, if the healer and DPS cannot handle it. I'm sure they think it's my fault we are wiping, but I've done those same pulls dozens of times. It's not me..

I would say it is you in some part. But then, I am someone who is firm in the belief that a tank should find an equilibrium of pulling that both the tank and healer are satisfied with. Read: Communicate and get clear what your healer can handle, it's called teamwork.

Otherwise..

https://twitter.com/Merryweatherey/s...73816344530945

Yes I did. But then they also kept talking like there are other cases like this that keeps happening. And about going into a dungeon that expects 240+ gear but someone in only 120. And other comments about running content in upgraded gear. In which I stand by my remarks, that today, as long as SE only requires the total average of gear, instead of minimum per slot, what is someone to do when someone does have a few pieces of old gear, but still makes ilvl average requirement?

For the record.. you can swap gear once you're in. People ilvl cheese roulettes all the time. Though admittedly I don't know if you can swap to gear below the minimum required ilvl for something. But it would be easy for someone with malicious intent to do such.. I say again someone with malicious intent, not first timers or just normal folks playing poorly.