Quote Originally Posted by Puremallace View Post
Since you asked the Defensive cooldowns are not on short CD's and I go in with the label TANK. When I pull a pack I position them in a specific way facing away from the dps and start my rotations. I do not know if I am dealing with a noob healer or some pro 30+ year MMO healer god.

When healers start pulling ahead of the tank instead of managing say 4 or 5 enemies I now have to manage 10 or more adds. I do not know who is in the group or what their gear level is. It is not like I have RaiderIO to mouse over someone to see if they are new or some raider level geared person.

It does not matter what MMO you are playing pulling ahead of the tank without saying anything is by far the most annoying thing in all of existence. Most tank I know will just let the person die. What is VERY VERY different about FF14 is in other MMO's it is dps who do it or try to rush but in FF14 it is healers.
Actually, I find it far more annoying when tanks pull three mobs, especially as a healer because I literally do nothing but spam Holy/Glare. Seriously. Baby pulls deal such negligible damage there just isn't an excuse for it by level 60, let alone 80. By this point, you should already be experimenting with medium sized pulls—which very rarely cause problems unless you truly have an... unfortunate group.

Besides, if someone else pulls. Take it as an opportunity to challenge yourself risk free. If you die despite rotating your CDs properly, you can blame the Healer/DPS for catching you off guard. If you live, you've now learned you can handle big pulls. It's a win/win, really.