Current Dungeon Environment is Extremely Toxic

[TyrTry]

Let's agree to disagree. In 6/7 years of playing this game, I have seen people asking/agreeing on the pace at the start of a dungeon maybe like... 3 times?

Then you would think in those 6-7 years you would realize that whomever you get in your party sets the pace. If I, the tank, got to set the pace all the time, then all my dungeons would end in the same short amount of time. But they don't. Just because you run to the mobs first just to get smacked around in the face does not make you de facto pace maker of the party.