Healers who rescue pull tanks into mobs.

[BunYulia]

Can I be honest...? The part of the sentence I have underlined is something a troll would say while playing the coy-card.
->The faster-argument is furhermore pretty common for impatient people, so you literally dug a hole with this phrase from my point of view. Avoid this phrase, no matter how well-meant it is.

Now, taking the "Rescue is toxic used like this" (i understand now) argument aside, i think most people doing dungeon want a smooth,fast run and spending 30minutes doing a dungeon that can be cleared in half of that by putting in a bit more effort doesn't sound bad. (i had to google what "playing the coy-card" means because English is not my first language as you surely noticed! so sorry for any mistakes)

If tanks don't do big pulls - whether or not you asked them for getting more monsters - do the only reasonable thing: Attacking mobs.
->Because useless overhealing (a ka if you happen to be one of these healers who refuse to hit stuff) won't help anybody at this point.

I am not that kind of healer i try to optimize my dps while keeping the team alive so do not worry about it, but i think it's obvious to say that DPS with good aoes will clear much faster with higher group of enemies with or without the dps i could add by having to heal less because of the smaller pulls.

Things put plainly: Rescue is meant to get people in time out of AOE (or into a stack). If you try to force your pace onto a tank without even talking to them, I count that as abusing the skill.

Ok that sounds bad , fair enough as i said i'll make an effort to stop using rescue like that.

Thing is, I don't trust you because I don't know you. If I'm not ahead pulling more,

Yeah that's a fair point too...