It's time (Option to Hide other players Glamour)

[Granyala]

My question right back at you is how can you not differentiate the difference between wishing to customize a video game you play and interacting with the "real world"?

I see no distinction. In both cases you wish to remove things that offend you on a personal level.

Only difference is: IRL there is usually nothing you can do about it, here in a game you think you can demand it from the developer.
You can demand all you want but the DEV is under no obligation to cater to your whim.

I find common ad-ridden radio and mainstream music super annoying and I often wish I had a pocket sized EMP ready to shut these devices up, so I am quite familiar with the desire to remove things from my perception I disagree with.

that wouldn't affect ANYONE else

It has been established that the above is not true.
Repeating it won't change that fact.

Though if I did have the option to alter how things or people looked through my vision only without anyone else knowing I would do it.

You can. People have been doing it for years in pretty much any MMO I know of.
It's close to never official though and if the DEVs finds out you are doing it, your account is toast.