Except - as we continue to be unable to agree on - some of us do see that as removing control over our character - specifically, the ability to control how we are presented to others.
It's not about wanting to wear obnoxious outfits or "be seen". but if you look at my character, I want her wearing what I picked for her - not the AF gear designers' ideas of what constitutes "feminine outfits", which usually means a miniskirt.