Quote Originally Posted by xxvaynxx View Post
But the way people come in here with their passive aggressive remarks in regards to lower skilled players just rubs me the wrong way, which is why I don't want official parses because I know how people can be when it comes to pulling low dps.
I know its part of a dog chasing its own tail by me contributing, but the exasperating part is explaining that the fact people were willing to get pretty petty over someone's comment in this thread (multiple instances) only cements what is seen culturally bad in JP. You see someone say "I dare you to say something about my DPS" here come people taking up the flame bait instead of leaving well enough alone.

Yes we know people are sensitive, yes we know it's a tool to improve. But instead of wasting time arguing with someone with how wrong they are: the best way of showing how parsing could be used beneficially WITHOUT the callout was stories on how you have helped me people improve.

But I know I'm grasping at straws, instead I'm sure this will reach more pages with the same arguments from years before, singling out players that have a difference of opinion and instead of earnestly reaching out to those in the negative in wanting to genuinely help them improve or in a better sense extend the olive branch. Nah, we'll just get more people affirming how there's too many sensitive scrubs out in the game and let's make passive aggressive remarks how they looked him/her up on a site and they should feel bad. :P

But hey, if there are people wanting to improve and you reach out to me I'll be happy to point you in the right direction and if you want to take it slow that's great, I can try to set aside some time if you are on the same server. If you don't then that's fine, I'm not gonna go out of my way to make you feel bad and the door is always open. I can't convince people to act differently to show there are ways to make it a more positive experience...because it takes a lot of effort to set aside things culturally but if it inspires some to change their approach about this debate so we can show more responsibility in regarding others so that the tool could be put in the game, in the end that's worth it.