I really hate the gender-locking, not just for wearing but also for aquistion.
I find the female outfit awful in all its components and there'd no way I'd ever use, but I love the male one, and honestly it would have been perfect to glamour Khai-shirr with.

I'll just vote for whoever I like the ideas of the most and then shove the outfit in the armoire.

I also don't care for the chocolate fountains. And there aren't even mini-games so eh.