I've said this somewhere before, but if someone uses a jump potion to skip ahead in the game, I fully expect them to read class guides and spend some time wailing on a dummy or mobs in the game. I'll still cut them some slack, but anything less shows a blatant lack of courtesy on their part to begin with when doing group content.
Even in ShB dungeons the experience isn't particularly intense. The "need to stun abilities" are generally *very* telling, given that their flashing cast bars and notable visual tells (tethers, certain stances, etc.). Even then, most of them are survivable without stunning so it's not necessarily required, it just makes things easier. Most of the time layout just devolves into "don't stand in bad", and grouping is just... grouping? Ya know, line stuff up so you can AoE them.
These are things that you can learn in other roles aside from tanks and if you don't have them by ShB for whatever reason there's something up. All that's needed is a little awareness of your surroundings.
And while those don't require a full toolkit, they do have you use some of it, and you should at least pick up on some of the non-toolkit queues (enemy casts, LoS, grouping, etc.) from them.
First off, what about what the others are more comfortable with? Why is it only the tank's comfort that matters in group content?
I've already stated multiple times that I'm not going to riff on a genuine new player, hell I won't riff on a struggling player in higher content. I'll do whatever I can to help ease them through and teach them anything they need, but I will laugh if someone tries to act like they're some fresh Gladiator taking their first step into Sashtasha when we're doing Holminster Switch. Or if someone comes into content woefully undergeared. Because that's unacceptable.
If I need to think about their wants/desires/feelings, they need to be doing the same for myself and the rest of the group. If they don't we're well within our rights to complain in an appropriate manner.
I don't really talk in dungeons unless someone needs help. I reserve and keep such opinions to myself to guarantee a better run, perhaps complaining in FC or Discord, but not always, and never with the person's name.
It's okay if I'm holding people to standards, even if you aren't willing to.



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