Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[WarzonePrez]

I have another thing of advice!
If you people want to not be ghosted or ignored, try and be a little more social.

I\\'m sorry but I can\\'t be asked to keep starting conversations with folks and they constantly one word. I dunno if I\\'m boring or something but if you one word or only talk about you a bit and not really geting to know your person then good luck. I admit to doing this below because people can\\'t be asked to hold conversations.
I know this could possibly be another reason of the ghost.

Define "social". Some people are naturally socially awkward. I literally had someone out of the blue message me today. I said "Hi", and got no response after that. Not sure what that's all about, but ya gotta understand, sometimes the first conversation with someone is gonna start out really really slow. It doesn't mean there isn't the potential for deep and meaningful conversation, it just means "Hey, I just met you, so let me get a bit more comfortable."

I mean, you take that any way you want.

[Bonjamoz]

Looking for partner in crime (repost)

Server: Coeurl (Crystal), Leviathan (Primal), Cactuar (Aether)

Willing to transfer: Maybe my Aether character, but the other two, probably not.

Personal Interests: Love to golf and play soccer. Most types of music interest me. Watching anime or good shows on Netflix etc. I love to travel and experience new cultures.

Play schedule: I tend to play everyday in the evenings PST. My work schedule is a bit weird, but when I'm not in game, I am available on Discord. Can usually adjust my schedule based on my partner

What kind of gamer are you: Pretty casual right now. Would eventually like to join a static and raid again. Raided heavily back in ARR, but haven't since then.

Character Gender: Male in game and out.

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character: I am only interested in females for a partner, but always happy to meet new people and make friends to play with!

Character Race: Au'ra Xaela

Preferred Race: Miqo for sure, but also like Viera, Hyur, and Au'ra.

Main class: DRK is my main on all my characters. My main sub would be DNC, SAM, or RDM.

Dislikes: People who can't hold a conversation. No sense of humor. Ignorant people. Mashed potatoes (yes I know...). Bad attitudes in general. I'm sure there are a few more, but we can cover those later.

Goals for the game: I'm just looking to have an overall pleasant experience whenever I log in the game. Whether it be running roulettes, doing raids, leveling, or whatever, I just want to enjoy myself with someone who is like-minded.

Goals for the marriage union: Find my other half. I would like to find someone that I get alone with completely in game and out. No need to rush into the EB because I feel there is a lot that we need to know about one another before moving to the next step.

Etc: We all pay the same amount of money to play this game. I'm not looking to tell someone how to play the game. That being said, I know content can become stagnant from time to time and it's hard to be motivated to play the game so I'd like to be able to either play other games as well or just keep in contact through Discord to spend time together.

My Discord is Kuro#9898 so feel free to add me and we'll go from there. Hope to hear from lots of fun and entertaining new friends

[WarzonePrez]

It wasn't just you I was speaking to. I was speaking to others i know as well as anyone else who may read this post. Just hoping people who don't see these things so clearly realize what they are asking for, what they are missing out on, what they do to others. . Maybe they will see that only selecting a certain race makes hurt others or isolate them is not of their doing sometimes. Your quote just opened the door to say those things. Some people may see that now. Thanks for that.

I think they know that, but in the same respect, it bears repeating.

And for reference...this is what Snow looks like now.

[Jybril]

Define "social". Some people are naturally socially awkward. I literally had someone out of the blue message me today. I said "Hi", and got no response after that. Not sure what that's all about, but ya gotta understand, sometimes the first conversation with someone is gonna start out really really slow. It doesn't mean there isn't the potential for deep and meaningful conversation, it just means "Hey, I just met you, so let me get a bit more comfortable."
I mean, you take that any way you want.

Actually holding a conversation. That's fine and well to be shy and stuff.
But if you continuously make one words such as "Lol. Yes. No. Okay." etc etc.
then you probably won't be very fruitful. You can't expect people to want to keep
chatting when you don't seem particularly interested in anything they have to say.
It's very one-sided and kinda rude. Just asking about their day, what they're up to, going to do, their likes and
dislikes is something you can just keep going upon.
I personally like random questions, simple as "What's your fave (insert)".
Those are always fun! Those are just some example though.

My best friend does the one-wordy thing sometimes and he's the only "boring" person
I can deal with with that crap. Of course, he chats more via actually speaking but come on man lol.

[Sophie_Lo]

I've been peaking at this thread on and off for a few months now, and the vast majority of what I have read prompts me to ask:

Am I terrible person for only wanting a "one and done" wedding, just so I can get a wedding dress? u_u

[Melyia]

lol Jybril. You are a riot to see come in here sometimes. Such a sassy lil' Lalafell. <3

[Melyia]

I've been peaking at this thread on and off for a few months now, and the vast majority of what I have read prompts me to ask:

Am I terrible person for only wanting a "one and done" wedding, just so I can get a wedding dress? u_u

Not really? Some people do that. They just want the glamour and nothing therefore afters. Some people just want friends and some are looking for the possibility of more. It's just what the two mutually agree upon.

[DSColonel81]

I personally got married the first time for the 2 person mount For Eureka XD

[AHelpingPaw]

Server:
Midgarsormr (Aether)

Willing to transfer?
I fear not, as i own a home and my friends/family play in Aether!
I guess if i met someone really special and there was no other choice, but i would rather not!

Personal Interests:
I have a passion for games, art, music, and all things cute and pastel!
I also love traveling, studying ancient history, and i absolute love cooking&baking!

Play schedule:
During work-days, usually i am available around 8PM GTM (3PM EST)
In my days off, i am always available unless i am sleeping >w</

What kind of gamer are you:
I am a casual player, who mostly plays for the story, the world and the glamours, but i do like playing dungeons and LFG raids to gear up a bit! I love taking screenies!
I have a passion for all things Nintendo, Pokémon, Animal Crossing, Rune Factory and Phantasy Star, so it would be lovely if we could play other games too!

Gender:
Male/Male

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?
I love making friends of all genders (or lack of thereof) but i do feel the most comfortable around girls, as they tend to be much softer, and soft is my life.

Character Race:
Miqo´te

Preferred Race:
I bow to my sweet, adorable Lalafellin overlords, rulers of Eorzea!
But ultimately, your character has to make you comfortable, not me!

Main class?:
Paladin, but i also play Gunbreaker to enjoy a bit of tanking variety!

Dislikes:
I generally dislike all things dramatic and hurtful, lies, betrayals and ghosting.
Passive-aggressiveness is a quick one way ticket to my block list.

I am a delicate and gentle soul and i bruise easily, and life already drains me of what emotional energy i have to spare, so i have little precious to offer in that regard.

Goals for the game:
Keeping up with the story, dressing up in adorable costumes, collecting glamours and pictures, and attempting to keep up with the welfare gear and LFG dungeons&trials.

Goals for the marriage union:
I would only marry someone i grew close to, i can trust, and with whom i want to spend a lot of my free time sharing moments with.
It does not have to necessarily transcend the game, but i refuse to marry just for the sake of the items and a shallow friendship.


Etc:

I am posting in this thread mostly with the hope to make new friends both in and out of FFXIV and marriage is not my primary concern, although it would be cute >/w/<

I am not against finding someone special by chance, but i am not looking for it.
Just pointing it out cause i think it´s obvious no-one spits on lady luck.

If you want to get to know me or want to ask anything, you can find me at:
Ruura#8867

[Kirito91]

Server: Moogle
Willing to transfer? I'm willing to transfer
Personal Interests: Movies, Anime, video games, running, paintball.
Play schedule: I can play almost everyday if i want to, but i don't have a schedule.
What kind of gamer are you: Normal gamer i guess? o.O
Character Gender: Male
Player Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? hoping for a female character and irl
Character Race: Hyur
Preferred Race: Hyur,miqo'te,Au Ra
Main class?: Ninja/Samurai
Dislikes: Arrogance, judgemental personalities, elitists.
Goals for the game: Just to play the game content and have fun with someone and discover the end game.
Goals for the marriage union: Just getting to know a new person and having fun playing together.

Discord Kim kultorp #5930