This game prepares no one for raid/hard content

[Enla]

There is a discord called Starbreakers Network for exactly that reason (running stuff synced and/or at min ilvl).

That being said, getting learning/clear groups for actual Ex Primal content gets harder the older the content is (this usually happends around 4-6 weeks after release). Hades Ex is an outlier, most PUGs (at least on my DC) have abandoned trying it already.

Which is weird because Hades EX kinda breaks the third EX curse that has been set in place since Thordan. It's really not that hard.