A few questions from the "new" player

[Skivvy]

I don't buy the first point whatsoever. Nobody would say something that stupid knowing how harsh SE is when it comes to harassment.

People say plenty of asinine things all the time.

[ChaoticCrimson]

People say plenty of asinine things all the time.

This is unfortunately true... Even these forums recently can be a prime example of that, but that's an entirely different can of worms I'd rather not get into at the moment.

In any case, OP I'm sorry to hear you were being bothered like that by other players. It's not a really common thing that happens, but people will be like that sometimes. As for buying a new house, it can be a bit tricky in this game due to the low amount of available plots on a server compared to the demand from players. There will be new wards opening up in each housing district on every server at some point after 5.1 comes out though. While these plots themselves will be only available at first for FCs and those who already have houses who want to transfer, this should also cause a fair amount of other plots from the pre-existing wards to open up. I'm not going to lie, it's still probably going to be pretty chaotic, but with a bit of luck and tenacity you might be able to score a nice plot. Even if it doesn't work out that day, don't give up! It can take some time, but as long as you keep at it I'm sure you'll get your plot. Good luck, and I hope you continue to enjoy the game!