I usually ask politely to let me pull, if they pull again i start ball dancing until the puller dies.
I usually ask politely to let me pull, if they pull again i start ball dancing until the puller dies.
DPS pulling bosses isn't a big deal in dungeons, especially if you're already there or right behind them. You can just take aggro with one ranged attack anyway. It is a problem that you told the party you were no longer going to do your role out of spite, which is a kickable offense.
Ask them not to pull before you. That usually fixes things, but if they cop a huge a attitude in response, then initiate a vote-kick. DPS are almost always instantly replaced, and I guarantee that unless they are a group, then the moment vitriol appears in the chat-window then the healer and other DPS will become just as immediately uncomfortable with the person who started it even if they remain silent.
If the attitude is big enough, just leave the instance yourself. Your tank queue is likely just as instant. You're in the power-position here, so don't let these things bother you.



The tank is not doing the right thing, no doubt. However, the dps isn’t any better. it doesn’t matter how easy aggro generate by tank, pulling ahead of tank not by accident or not acknowledging the tank ahead is equally lack of repsect as letting the party die intentionally.DPS pulling bosses isn't a big deal in dungeons, especially if you're already there or right behind them. You can just take aggro with one ranged attack anyway. It is a problem that you told the party you were no longer going to do your role out of spite, which is a kickable offense.

Unleds the party dies as a direct result of the dps pulling...it really isn't. One is disrespectful to the tank, the other is disrespectful to the entire party (for the actions of one member, by the way). Not seeing the equivalence here.The tank is not doing the right thing, no doubt. However, the dps isn’t any better. it doesn’t matter how easy aggro generate by tank, pulling ahead of tank not by accident or not acknowledging the tank ahead is equally lack of repsect as letting the party die intentionally.
Let the puller die, then take aggro and keep going. Hopefully the healer will not res and the puller will learn their lesson.
No need to let the whole party take the hit.

At the end of the day, being petty solves nothing. And even though you won't admit it, you're wasting your own time for letting your party members die on purpose just to "teach them a lesson".
DPS that overstep their boundaries need to be snapped back sometimes.
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